Hi everyone.
I just wanted to let you all know that my beloved mother passed away last night at about 9:45 PM.
My dear brother, Tom, was with her when she took her last breath.
She died peacefully and surrounded by love.
I am at a loss for words right now, so please forgive me. I will write more in the weeks to come.
I will be flying to Florida tomorrow and spending a week or so with my brother and family, so I won’t be online much, getting things ready to go.
I will try to post when I get there, just to let you know that I arrived.
But before I go, I wanted to take a moment to thank you all for your support, prayers, good vibes and love that you’ve shared with my mother since last March, because it made both her time on this earth and her final transition a peaceful and loving one.
It still amazes me how powerful online friendships can be. Because even though we might not ever know each other in person, we still connect through the energy and power of our words.
And it made a WORLD of difference….
Thank you SO MUCH everyone!
(((((( everyone )))))
(((((( everyone )))))
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Oh Ron. Words fail me right now. As you know, I just lost my dad last month. My heart goes out to you and your brother right now. I'm so glad you were able to spend some quality time with her. May your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. Prayers are being said. xo Jeanne
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Ron. I am holding you in my heart.
ReplyDeleteHi Ronnie
ReplyDelete(((((((((((((( Ronnie))))))))))))
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am feeling with you and wish that I could be there to hold you and share your loss. Because hugs and a warm touch sometimes speak louder than words
From D & I, all the warmth and love from the both of us.
...I am so, so sorry dear Ron. My deepest sympathies go to you and your family and please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDelete...(((you)))
...God bless.
Oh my friend I am so sorry for your loss, such a sad time for you and your family. Know that I'm thinking of you all and I'm sending Reiki to your beloved mother to ease her journey home. Much love to you Ron and Reiki Blessings. xxxx
ReplyDeleteLove you, Ron. I am so sorry. I know the coming months will be difficult, but you have my prayers that you will find peace and be able to hold on to the good memories.
ReplyDeleteRon, my heart goes out to you with much love. Your mother's beautiful spirit will live on with you and your brother.
ReplyDeleteSincere condolences, Ron. I am so sad for you and your brother but happy that you had that final conversation with your mother. God be with you at this sad time. Please know that you are in my thoughts (((Ron))) x
ReplyDeleteOh Ron. All I can say is that I'm deeply saddened by the news but I know that you have been preparing yourself for this. That doesn't make it any easier. You are such a wonderful and bright soul. Just know that so many people are sending you love right now. You are in my thoughts. I hope your mother and mine will be having coffee somewhere up above and laughing like we have together.
ReplyDeleteRon, I'm so so sorry. And if you need anything at all please let me know. Even if it's just milk or bread or something you just don't have the energy to get up and get. I'm right around the corner. Love to all of you.
ReplyDeleteRon, I am so terribly sorry! There is nothing so painful as losing your mother. My mother left us more than 10 years ago and I still miss her very much. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Always remember that you were a great son to her . Your mother will live forever in your heart. I'm here if you need me, brother. Take care of yourself!
ReplyDeleteMy sincerest condolences, Ron. She is lucky to have been loved so much. Take care, my friend.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry Ron. There are things I could say, but you will be saying them all yourself anyway. You spent some quality time with your mother and made many beautiful memories, that will stay with you forever.
ReplyDeleteThe best medicine we found was to talk about our mother all the time, to whoever would listen. It truly helps and we are all here for you to do that whenever you feel the need. Right now you need your family.
Look after yourself xxx
I'm so sorry Ron. I have been reading your updates and praying for your precious Mother. I know how hard losing someone is even though we are prepared and have said our goodbye's. Please call when you get to Fla if there is anything you need or just to talk. I love you.
ReplyDeleteI love you lots
ReplyDeletehugs from me and Hope
Peaceful Journey Mom
Hey there Lady Dianne~
ReplyDeleteThank you, sweet lady. Thank you!
((((( You ))))))
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Hey there Laurel~
ReplyDeleteI can't thank you enough for stopping by my blog and for your sweet and kind words.
((((( You)))))
I will be in Florida until sometime the last week of the month. Yes, I will contact you, I promise!
X ya!
Hey there Mark~
ReplyDeleteThank you, buddy. Thank you!
((((( You )))))
X to you and Tara!
Hiya Babs~
ReplyDelete"The best medicine we found was to talk about our mother all the time, to whoever would listen."
Yes, I am really looking forward to getting to Florida so that I can sit with family and friends, and look at old photos while talking/reminiscing about my beloved mother. I think It will be a great comfort to us all.
And I think my mother will love that!
Thank you so much for stopping by and for your kind and supportive words!
((((( You )))))
X to you and Mo!
Hey there Rob~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your supportive and kind words, buddy. That means a lot to me.
((((( You ))))))
I feel really at peace about how things went for my mother. Her only wish was to pass without any drama or pain, and to be surrounded by love. And that's exactly how she left.
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Hey there Lora~
ReplyDeleteThank you, sweet lady. Thank you!
And thank you for having been a part of this journey with my mother, brother and I.
(((( You ))))
See ya when I get back!
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Hiya Secret Agent Woman~
ReplyDelete((((( You )))))
Thank you!
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I'm so sorry, Ron. Please take time for you....allow yourself to feel what you feel and take care of you. Big hugs.
ReplyDeleteHey there Bijoux~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your prayers and loving support, dear lady.
Thank you!
((((( You )))))
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Ahh...so sorry to hear about her passing, but she was a good person and she will live on in your life for a long time. I lost my dad 28 years ago and my mom 19 years ago and I still miss them very much. Our thoughts will be with you as in this great loss and through your grief.
ReplyDeleteHey there Lady Nitebyrd~
ReplyDelete(((((((((((( You )))))))))))))
Thank you so much. And I can feel your love.
Talk to you when I get to Florida, okay?
X ya, Sis!
Hello there Valerie~
ReplyDeleteOur last conversation was a HUGE comfort to both myself and my mother. That's when she and I truly said our goodbyes.
Thank you for all the love and support you've given my family and I during these past 6 months.
(((((( You ))))))
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Hey there Jen~
ReplyDelete" I hope your mother and mine will be having coffee somewhere up above and laughing like we have together."
HA! And I BET they are too!!!!
I can't thank you enough for all the support and love you've shared with my family and I these past 6 months. Thank you, girl!
((((( You )))))
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Hey there Jeanne~
ReplyDelete"May your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. Prayers are being said."
Thank you SO MUCH, dear lady. Thank you!
(((((( You ))))))
X to you and the girlz!
Bonjour Barb~
ReplyDelete" I am feeling with you and wish that I could be there to hold you and share your loss. Because hugs and a warm touch sometimes speak louder than words"
Thank you, sweet friend. But please know that I can FEEL all the love and hugs you're sharing with me right now, and I so appreciate it!
((((((( You )))))))
Much X to you and D!
Hello there dear TJ~
ReplyDeleteThank you, sweet lady. Thank you!
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Hey there Pearl~
ReplyDelete" Know that I'm thinking of you all and I'm sending Reiki to your beloved mother to ease her journey home. Much love to you Ron and Reiki Blessings."
((((((( You ))))))
Thank you, m'dear. That means A LOT to me!
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Hello there Suzi!
ReplyDeleteYes, I sure will, dear friend. I sure will!
I'm so looking to being with my brother these next 10 days, so that we can care for and support one another.
Thank you for your hugs and support!
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Hello there Lowell~
ReplyDeleteThank you, kind sir. I really appreciate your caring and supportive words.
((((( You )))))
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Ron
ReplyDeleteI offer to my condolences. Now is the time for you to grieve your loss. Your wonderful mother is now in the realm of unconditional love and light. She will always be in your heart and your soul. The warm sun on a cold day the cool breeze on a hot day will all be the comfort that this beautiful woman still has to offer her sons. Her time here has melded into the place of no time. Know that she has taught all of those who came in contact with her. Take her lessons on your continued path. Ron, your tears will dry and the heaviness will get a little lighter as the days progress. When the memory of this wonderful lady enters your thoughts in the future a smile will return and you will know that she has not left but is only on a different journey.
Namaste.
Hey there Mr. Dave~
ReplyDelete" When the memory of this wonderful lady enters your thoughts in the future a smile will return and you will know that she has not left but is only on a different journey."
Your beautiful comment was like a wonderful healing salve that touched and warmed my heart. Thank you, dear friend.
My passed as she had always wished. Peacefully, calmly, and surrounded by love.
Yes, I am both grieving and crying. You should have seen me yesterday on the phone with my dear brother. The two of us cried together and it felt so good. I am so looking forward to spending the next 10 days with him, as we both walk through this together.
Thank you so much for all your support, care and love during these past 6 months. It has been a blessing!
(((((( You ))))))
Namaste
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Oh, Ron.
ReplyDeleteI am sooooooo sorry to read this news. My whole heart aches for you. I am sending you ALL OF MY LOVE. You have my deepest sympathies. And I swear on all things bacon, if you need me, I will drive over that bridge to hold your hand in person.
XOXOXOXO
Oh, Ron. My heart sank when I saw the title to this post before reading it. It scared me and then I saw it was true. Hugs from nearby. I'm so glad you had that conversation with her about regrets. That was a beautiful post. Hang in there, friend.
ReplyDeleteBest,
Kathy
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ReplyDeleteI saw the photo before the title.
I knew......I just didn't want it to be, but it's not about me or you or what we want. And it's okay.....even when it doesn't 'feel' okay.
She's home. And I hope her and dad are dancin' it up, yaknow?
In the arms of angels..... I will try to get past that sadness to celebrate that her wishes were honoured as she went home to G-d in the arms of angels.
My heart hurts for you, for that perceived empty spot that she's truly not 'left'. She filled it with such huge love for you, all of her life with you. She chose you to love. And she rocked at it.
Loved well--and well loved.
Safe journey.
And let people be there for you and yours.
(((((((((((( Ron ))))))))))))))))
Hey there Kathy~
ReplyDelete"I'm so glad you had that conversation with her about regrets."
Me too! Within the last two conversation she and I achieved some really beautiful closure, which put us both at peace.
Thank you so much for stopping by and for your hugs, girl!
((((( You ))))))
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ron, i got this post as an email and opened it while i was at work and "yelled" "oh no, oh no." i was shocked though i knew she was ill, but still it hurt me as if i knew her personally. i'm very sorry for your loss and wish i could be there to give you a hug and be a source of comfort. thanks for sharing your mom with us on your blog. love ya!
ReplyDeleteHiya Mel~
ReplyDelete"She's home. And I hope her and dad are dancin' it up, yaknow?"
Funny you mentioned that because the last two conversations we had, she kept telling me, "Your father is talking to me because I can hear him."
I truly think he was there, bringing her home.
"My heart hurts for you, for that perceived empty spot that she's truly not 'left'. She filled it with such huge love for you, all of her life with you. She chose you to love. And she rocked at it."
She SURE did, didn't she? My brother and I both feel very blessed to have had her as our mother.
Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing the love in your heart, dear lady.
((((( You )))))
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Hey there Meleah~
ReplyDelete*smiling*
Thank you, girl. Thank you for your sweet and loving support.
"And I swear on all things bacon, if you need me, I will drive over that bridge to hold your hand in person."
((((( You )))))
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Dear dear Ron (Dickie),
ReplyDeleteJust found this spot through Chris Robison and I'm so glad I did. We all miss you very much and I feel like I was led to this today and now I know why - so I could find out about the passing of your mom. I've read the things you have written and I truly believe your dad was there to greet her and help her cross over. I'm a big believer in that. How fortunate you and your brother were to have her for so many years and to know her love. Travel safe as you head back down this way and know that there are lots and lots of people who love you. Sending you a great big hug and lots of love! xoxo, Hilda
Hey there V Girl~
ReplyDeleteYes, I was shocked too because no sooner did I hang up talking to my brother on the phone, he called back about 20 minutes later and said that she had passed. But when peacefully and calmly, with a smile on her face.
" i'm very sorry for your loss and wish i could be there to give you a hug and be a source of comfort."
You ARE a source of comfort, my friend. EVERYONE here is, because I can feel your out pour of love and support, so thank you!
(((((( You ))))))
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OMG...it's HILDA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat faaaaaaaaaaaaabulous treat to see you comment here! I'm so sorry I didn't let everyone know on Facebook that I deleted my account before I did, but I'm so glad that Chris Robinson let you know. Please tell her I said, THANK YOU!
"I've read the things you have written and I truly believe your dad was there to greet her and help her cross over. I'm a big believer in that."
I'm a believer of that too. So, I do think my father was there to help her come home.
" How fortunate you and your brother were to have her for so many years and to know her love."
You said it. We're both VERY fortunate indeed.
I can't thank you enough for stopping by my blog and leaving comment.
(((((( You )))))
Please tell all the gang in Orlando that "Mr. Dickie" said hello and love!
Again, thank you for stopping by, Hilda!
XOXOXO
I tried "text" messaging you today, totally forgetting I was sending it to your house phone.
ReplyDeleteI didn't want to call, only because I am sure you're very overwhelmed right now.
But you have my number and if you need to talk you can call me 24/7.
That's funny because I've had other people do the same thing, thinking I had a cell phone so they texted me and called me later in the day to say, "Why didn't you respond to my text message?!?!
ReplyDeleteHAHAHAHAHAHA!
I think I'm the only person on the planet who doesn't have a cell phone.
Yes, dear friend, I have your number and I may in fact call you while I'm in Florida just to chat!
Thanks again for your support and love!
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Perfect! I will be looking forward to your phone call.
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Ron, in the several years of reading your blog, whenever you've posted about your mother, it felt like I actually knew her in person. And even though I knew she was very ill, reading this today truly breaks my heart because I will miss your stories about her.
ReplyDeleteKnow that all our love is with you now, supporting you and your brother through this great loss. I'm glad you're going to be spending some time in Florida with your brother and family because you all need each other right now.
You are held in my thoughts and prayers, Ron.
Hola Denise~
ReplyDeleteYour sweet and tender words brought tears to my eyes.
Please know that I will continue to share stories about my mother on this blog from time to time, because I still have so many from my childhood. She left a wonderful imprint on my life, and the lives that she touched.
Yes, I'm so looking forward to spend time with my brother, Tom, and my family and friends. It will do us all good.
Thank you for stopping by and for all the support and love you've shared throughout these past 6 months.
Thank you, girl!
(((( You ))))
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Ron, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, I know you were prepared for this but I also know that you are never ready.
ReplyDeleteYou have become a close friend to Cindy and I and our hearts are breaking for you my Friend, so let us know how you are as time allows, and know we are there with you as you spend time with your Family.
I know how much you Love your Mom and also know how proud she was of you, these memories are special and I am happy that you have these to cherish.
We Love you Buddy!
Hey there Jimmy!
ReplyDelete" I know you were prepared for this but I also know that you are never ready."
You're right, It's like you know it's inevitable, yet when the moment comes...it's like the wind is knocked out of you. It's ironic because all day yesterday I could feel something going on with my mother, so I think I felt it on some level.
Yup...I will DEFINITELY be posting from Florida from time to time, letting you guys know what's going on. I will most likely be there until sometime during the final week of Nov. I'm actually looking forward to this trip for many reasons.
Thank you soooooooo much for stopping by and for your loving and caring words, buddy. Thank you!
Much X to you and Miss Cindy!
You ROCK!
Aw Ronnie, I am so, so sorry. Your outlook during this transition has been incredibly positive and loving. You said everything to your mother that you needed to say and she knew how much you loved her. If there is anything that I can do please let me know. Know that my thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Bill
I've been thinking of you alot lately. I couldn't bring myself to comment on the last post, I'm sorry, it was emotional for me for different reasons. But I've certainly had your family in my thoughts, knowing this day would come for you all. I believe you (and, your brother) made your mom's final months, weeks, and days so much easier through love and I know you'll feel her energy come back to you again and again to help comfort as needed.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing all you did of her. And that you had such a wonderful relationship is an inspiration.
Peace and love to you, my friend.
I'll continue to hold you in my thoughts.
xo
I was so glad to see your replies to comments since that meant you were in florida and OK
ReplyDeleteor as OK as possible
I have been thinking of you and your brother and sending comforting thoughts down the coastline to good ole Florida.
and of course hugs
Hey there Lady Dianne~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for stopping by and checking up on me. You're a sweetheart!
Yes, I just got here about an hour ago and it was so GREAT to see my brother. I'm exhausted because I really haven't slept too well the past few nights, so tonight I'm going to have a nice glass of red wine and then crash.
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Anyway, dear lady, I'll be posting sometime within the next couple of days.
Have a great weekend!
X to you and the gang!
Hey there Bill~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your sweet and supportive words, buddy, they touched me deeply.
I just arrived in Florida about an hour ago and it was so great to see my brother. I'll be posting again within the next couple of days.
Have a super weekend!
X to you and Paul!
Hey there Mary~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your supportive and loving words, dear friend.
(((((( You )))))))
I just arrived in Florida about an hour ago and it was so awesome to see my brother again! We're going out for a great Italian meal tonight and just relax.
Thanks for stopping by, neighbor! Have a great weekend!
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P.S. when I left Philly it was 45 degrees, when I got to Florida it was 80. I',m going the lay out by the pool tomorrow, just to chill!
Just came by to catch up and discovered the news. I am so very sorry to hear about your mom's passing. I know she meant the world to you. How very cool that you two had such a heart felt conversation just days before about not carrying regrets.
ReplyDeleteBe well my friend and know I'm thinking of you.
Howdy Jeff~
ReplyDeleteGreat seeing ya, buddy!
Thank you so much for stopping by and for support. Muchly appreciated.
Wishing you and your family a Happy Thanksgiving!
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I've been thinking about you this weekend - I know it's a rocky time but I hope you and your family are hanging in there.
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry Ron.
ReplyDeleteBut it has been a honour to get to know your mother in this short time.
May love and time heal the sorrow of your loss.
Thank you so much for stopping back and for your concern, you're a sweetheart!
ReplyDelete(((((( You )))))
My brother and I are doing well. It's been great to just hang out with each other as we go through this time together. We have a lot of support around us right now, so it's been a great help.
Hope you're weekend was wonderful!
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Hello there Jaffer~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for stopping by and for your touching and supportive words, buddy.
It's been both a sad and beautiful time for us because so many people here in Florida have reached out to us in support. It's so touching to see just how many people loved my mother.
Hope you had a great week!
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I am so sorry for your loss Ron! Please know you are in my thoughts! If you need anything at all feel free to let me know! Even if you just need someone to talk to.
ReplyDeleteHiya Shae~
ReplyDeleteAw...thank you, girl.
((((( You )))))
Thank you so much for your care and concern.
Hope you had a super weekend!
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Ron: So sorry to hear this. Our hearts go out to you and to your mother. And, as always, if there's anything we can do just give us a shout.
ReplyDelete[*Internet hug from Karin and me*]
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, I send my condolences to you and your family; and my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I very much hope that everything is fine with you, Ron.
ReplyDeleteHowdy Herman~
ReplyDeleteThank you, buddy. You and Karin are the best!
I just wanted to let you know that I'm reading these comments to my brother, Tom, and he's very touched by everyone's support.
Hope you had a grrrrrrrrreat weekend!
X to you, Karin, and Mr. Tyler!
Oh my dear Ron My heart cry's for you and your family, you and your family are in my prayers. I am here for you my friend if you ever need just to talk big hugs and kisses for you and your family You are in my thoughts daily
ReplyDeleteLots of Hugs Love and prayers
Your Friend Cindy
Greetings Abu~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for stopping by and for your condolences and support, my friend. Very much appreciated.
I'm in Florida now with my brother, Tom, and it feels great to have this time together.
Hope you had a great weekend!
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Hey there Miss Cindy~
ReplyDeleteSo great to see your comment, girl!
Thank you so much for your loving support, prayers and thoughts.
((((( You ))))))
I'm glad I decided to fly back to Florida early, so that I could have this alone time with my brother, Tom. We're both doing well; taking time to have some enjoyable time with one another.
Again, thank you for stopping by. That really touched me.
Hope you had a super weekend.
X to you and Jimmy!
Just checking in and checking up on you and yours....... I'm glad you've gotten so much support from the people there. And I'm really, really glad to hear that you and the brother have had time to just be there for each other.
ReplyDeleteStill thinking about ya.........still sending prayers.
Still makes me sad--but I am so grateful that everyone had that time together this summer to just BE and enjoy, yaknow?
k....... Just wanted you to know you're being thought of--obviously by a great many......which is really awesome.
I'm glad to hear that everything is well with you. Take care!
ReplyDeleteHelloooooooooooooo Mel~
ReplyDeleteAw...thank you sooooooo much for stopping by and checking up on me, you sweet lady you.
((((((( You )))))))
My brother and I just got in from a very busy day because we had a lot to do, but we got a lot accomplished so we're two happy dudes :)
I'm so glad I decided to fly down here earlier than I was going to because it's giving my brother and I time to get things done. Also, we're finding moments to laugh and have fun. And EAT some REALLY great food!
The support and love we've been receiving from everyone here has been so touching.
" Just wanted you to know you're being thought of--obviously by a great many......which is really awesome."
Thank you. And yes, it is awesome. I feel very blessed.
Have a great week, dear lady. I will be posting again in a day or two.
X ya bunches!
Thank you!
ReplyDeleteHave a great week, Abu!
(((((((((( Ron )))))))))))))
ReplyDeleteYou two be sure to take time to be kind to yourselves, eh? And just know folks are thinking about you and holding you in their hearts.
Will do, dear lady!
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"And just know folks are thinking about you and holding you in their hearts."
Thank you!
X ya bunches and bunches!
Oh no Ron, Oh No. I had not seen you and was afraid... I actually was avoiding checking in a way... just knowing somehow. I am so glad you were able to really TALK to her. I have learned so much from you about life, death, regrets, success... your mother has inspired me through you so many times. Remember, she is in you... she is part of you.... she will always be with you. Oh honey... I am so so so sorry. XXXOOO big hugs to you... prayers... positive thoughts... I wish I could be there to help. You are in my heart and head Ron.
ReplyDeleteHello Katherine~
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for stopping by and for your beautifully supportive words, my friend. They touched me deeply.
((((( You ))))
My family and I are so grateful that my beloved mother passed peacefully, calmly, and with love all around her. She died with a smile on her face.
I flew down to Florida on Saturday and will be here until next Wednesday. Her memorial service will be on Monday. I'm so glad to have this time with my brother because we've been a great support for one another. We're enjoying our time together.
Again, thank you for your comment, Katherine!
X ya!
Ron, I am so sorry to hear that. It is such a hard thing to let people go, even when the choice it not ours. I won't say any of the things that you don't want to hear, rather I feel for you during this difficult time of transition. Be kind to yourself and know that you are loved.
ReplyDeleteAnd also remember that your Mother will continue to travel with you forever.
Peace to you my friend
Hugs ♥
Hey there Katherine~
ReplyDeleteI can't thank you enough for stopping by and for your beautifully touching comment.
((((((( You )))))))
"remember that your Mother will continue to travel with you forever."
Amen!
Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving Day!
X ya, my friend!